Ellie is getting to be so much fun! I keep thinking back to how hard and overwhelming those first couple weeks felt. I just couldn't see how things were going to get better! They definitely have though, and I just love having this precious little girl and I love watching her grow!
Ellie loves to suck! Quite the turn around from her early weeks. She won't last long without something in her mouth. The binky is still very handy and keeps her calm, but sometimes she would just rather suck on her fingers or her arm. She gets very into this, and makes very loud sucking noises. They are pretty funny. She has even given herself a hickey on her arm!
We took a trip to Boise last week for a mini family reunion. I was so nervous about the drive but she did really well. She slept most of the way and was very happy and playful when she was awake. While in Boise, Ellie laughed for the first time and she rolled over. Sadly, we have not been able to repeat the laugh. She is trying so hard to figure it out, but it's just not quite there yet. She has rolled over a couple more times, but sometimes I think it's more of a gravity pull than anything. Again, she is trying really hard to master this one, but she needs a little more time. I think she might get rolling over from her back to tummy down first. She puts in some serious effort on her back.
I don't know if I have mentioned before that Ellie hates tummy time. I couldn't stand to see her bury her face in the blanket and just scream, so I kind of gave up practicing. Then I saw a picture of Hayley's amazing baby holding her head up and I decided it was time to get down to business. Mathew and I helped cheer her on while she was on her belly and after a couple sessions, she became a rockstar at it! She doesn't last for more than a few minutes before her head is buried and she is crying again, but there is major improvement and every session, she goes a little longer! (Thanks Hayley for motivating me to help my baby progress haha)
She has discovered her feet! She loves to look at them and grab on to them. Every time I lay her down to change her diaper, she lifts those feet up and grabs right on to them. She will also kick her legs like crazy during diaper changes. We are convinced she got Mathew's love for running. :) Along with loving her feet, she loves to stand up! This came partly because of her distaste for tummy time and my desire to decrease the pressure on the back of her head.
I started giving Ellie stuffed animals. She loves them! As soon as I put it in her hands, she will put it straight into her mouth to suck on it. It's adorable to see her try and fit her whole mouth around it. I'm also hoping to use the stuffed animal at night to help keep her calm without being swaddled in her Halo. I love that thing, but they only make them so big and I don't want to have to swaddle for much longer!
A few weeks ago, Ellie started "ohing." So cute! It makes me laugh whenever she does it. She shapes her mouth into a very defined "O" with super puckered lips. She loves to babble and talk.
We have been giving her a bath every night and she loves it. At first, it would instantly calm her and she would just enjoy sitting there. Now, however, she has discovered how to splash in the water. She will kick and kick and fling her arms in the water. I have a hard time getting her out because I know she is having so much fun.
Now to the part I am struggling with. She is not a good sleeper at all! Supposedly, she is supposed to be getting one long stretch in at night by now. She was lengthening it, but over the last week, she will only sleep for a few hours at a time. I have no idea what is wrong. I think we are going to switch the bath to mornings instead, because it seems to arouse her now more than calm her. We also had a projector thing that's a part of her sound machine above her crib going all night so we could see her, but we turned both the sound and projector off last night and things seemed a little better. I don't think she is old enough to let her cry it out yet, so we aren't going to do that for another month if things don't improve. I strongly agree with "Happiest Baby On the Block" when he says you can't spoil a newborn and hold her too much, so she will not be crying it out quite yet. I am trying to follow the instruction of "Healthy Sleep Habits, Happy Child." I'm just feeling a little lost because those methods aren't working yet. I think maybe she just isn't ready for some of the things we have been doing. We try to lay her down when she is awake but it doesn't work. And don't worry, I have done it often, not just once and given up. I am getting exhausted though, and really hoping things will start to improve.
She is also extremely clingy with napping lately. She won't let me put her down, so I have resorted to having her nap in the wrap. She takes excellent long naps in this, so it's very tempting to just keep doing it that way. The only thing keeping me is that I was really starting to enjoy having my hands free during nap time!
This was taken after she got her shots. Poor thing. :(
She actually handled the shots surprisingly well, but was definitely miserable the next couple days.
Her 4th of July parade outfit. My mom and I got a little excited about the 4th and she might have had 3 outfits...having a girl might get a little expensive for me haha. Her shots were July 3rd so the 4th was not as fun as we were hoping.
Waiting for the fireworks. We decided to leave before they started.
We took her to the drive-in one night. Her face cracks me up in this picture.
She loves standing!
I'm not one to take pics of myself in the mirror very often, but I felt the need to document her clingyness. This was a week ago, but she will not nap any other way lately!
I had to throw this one in to brag about Mathew for a second. He worked SO hard this semester and he was a part of a project for Polaris. They designed a tool to improve the assembly of part of the engines of some of their motorcycles. They took first place in the engineering design competition and I couldn't be prouder.
Her first experience with a stuffed animal. Straight to the mouth.
So proud of him for graduating! Note her hand's location.
Did I mention she also loves to suck on her bottom lip?
She broke free of her Halo.
My beautiful sister Stephanie is such an amazing aunt to Ellie! She sang all sorts of songs to her while we were in Boise and snuggled her a lot. So glad Ellie will have her as an aunt!
We bought her a zebra in Boise. She loves how soft it is. This also had Stephanie singing a zebra safari song to her which has been stuck in my head for DAYS! I have a video of her singing it, but promised I wouldn't share it on the web. :)
This is how she feels about tummy time.
Couldn't help sucking on her fingers.
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Three!
Take every parenting book with a grain of salt, every baby is different and can't be defined by one person's shoulds or shouldn'ts. And she's growing and changing a lot right now which means her needs and preferences will change a lot too. Around three months John had a major growth spurt and that puts a huge dent in sleep duration, but every phase ends and you'll figure each other out soon.
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